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Create Sacred Space Within You And Around You

Here Is A Feng Shui Clearing Method and House Blessing You Can Use To Improve Your Peace of Mind

by @elioverbey

Imagine you are standing in the place you call home. How do you feel when you are there?

Are you at ease, relaxed and happy in your home?

Does your home nourish and replenish you?

Do you feel somehow “off” when you are in your home?  You know something is amiss and you can’t figure out why you just aren’t comfortable there. Or do you wake up stressed with all you have to get done?

When the energy in your home is not aligned with your desires it can be overwhelming. If the energy in your home is negative or stagnant it will impact all areas of your life including your peace of mind and well-being.

Your home can have the vibration of a sanctuary that nurtures you and contributes to your well-being and peace of mind. When your home has good “flow” the energy vibe is uplifting and positive, making it easier for you to be happy and have peace of mind.

Today I am going to share a 4 – step Feng Shui Clearing method and House Blessing that you can use to increase your well-being and peace of mind.

Creating a sacred space in your home matters.

Think of a time when you went into someone’s home and it felt chaotic. The chaos of the space made you uneasy and you probably wanted to leave as soon as possible.

That is because everything is energy and everything is connected. We connect with the energy of our spaces whether the energy is uplifting or draining and that energy impacts how we feel and how we function everywhere.

You can create sacred space within your home whether it is an altar you make for offerings, a meditation space, your special place to drink tea, or your creative studio. Sacred space is a place where you communicate with spirit, give thanks, and offer prayers.

Intentions Matter

You connect to your desires when you create intentions. When you say your intentions out loud you call the energy of the universe to support you. Writing intentions is a powerful process that allows you to refine and focus on exactly what you want.

Intentions are like the goalposts in a football game, they help you focus on where you are going. Imagine a football game without goalposts. The players would not know where to run with the ball. Chaos and confusion would be in charge.

Ceremony Matters

When you combine your intentions with sacred actions you create a powerful ceremony.  A ceremony can clear, boost and uplift the energy of your intentions and your home. The most important part of performing a ceremony is your sincerity. You must be 100% sincere to get the results you seek.

Step 1 – Preparation for the Feng Shui Clearing Method and House Blessing

  • Stand at your front door and notice how you feel there.
  • Walk clockwise around your house noticing how you feel in each area and room.
  • Make a note of your impressions and feelings.

Step 2 – Create Your Intentions

  • Begin by searching your heart. What do you desire?
  • Write your intentions following these guidelines:
    • State the intention as if it is already happening.
    • Eliminate the words “to be, try, and will”
    • Give yourself time to clarify your intentions.
    • Check your sincerity, you must be sincere for success.

Step 3– The Orange Peel Method For Clearing A Home

This method is used to clear negative, draining, stale, or stagnant energy from your home. Follow the instructions below:

  1. Purchase a fresh orange
  2. Sit in a peaceful place in your home to prepare the orange and sacred water.
  3. Cut 9 small, round, disk-like pieces(circles) of the rind only, not the orange.
  4. While cutting the orange rind think about the energy you would like to clear from your home and all the things you would like to be released.
  5. Place the orange pieces in a small bowl of water. Say your intentions into the bowl of water and orange pieces.
  6. Starting at the front door, walk through each room and sprinkle water by dipping the fingers with your right hand into the water. Use a flicking motion to sprinkle a small amount of water in each room. Visualize negative and stagnant energy is being released.
  7. Finish at the front door and give thanks for the energy clearing.

You can use the Orange Peel Method to clear energy in your home anytime you believe a clearing or boost in the vibration is needed.

Step 4 – The House Blessing

  • Begin by standing inside your home at the front door or at your altar if you have one.
  • Center yourself with a few deep breaths
  • Take a moment to connect with the energy of your home, your feelings of gratitude and love for the sacred space you live in.
  • Read the House Blessing. You can add your own words to any part of the blessing to make it your own. Or you can read it as is.
  • Remember to be sincere.

House Blessing For Your Home

May this house shelter your life.

When you come in home here,

May all the weight of the world

Fall from your shoulders.

May your heart be tranquil here,

Blessed by peace the world cannot give.

May this home be a lucky place,

Where the graces your life desires

Always find the pathway to your door.

May nothing destructive

Ever cross your threshold.

May this be a safe place

Full of understanding and acceptance,

Where you can be as you are,

Without the need of any mask

Of pretense or image.

May this home be a place of discovery,

Where the possibilities that sleep

In the clay of your soul can emerge

To deepen and refine your vision

For all that is yet to come to birth.

May it be a house of courage,

Where healing and growth are loved,

Where dignity and forgiveness prevail;

A home where patience of spirit is prized,

And the sight of the destination is never lost

Though the journey be difficult and slow.

May there be great delight around this hearth,

May it be a home of welcome

For the broken and diminished.

May you have the eyes to see

That no visitor arrives without a gift

And no guest leaves without a blessing.

~John O’Donohue

Step 5 – Post Ceremony Check

  • Stand at your front door and notice how you feel there
  • Walk clockwise around your home noticing how you feel in each area and room
  • What do you notice has changed after doing the orange peel method and house blessing?

You shift and move energy when you perform sacred ceremonies in your surroundings.

Some of the changes you may notice right away and other changes may be subtle and more noticeable over time.

When your home has the vibration of a peaceful sanctuary it nurtures you and contributes to your well-being and peace of mind.

When your home has good “flow” the energy vibration is uplifting and positive, supporting your happiness, health, and peace of mind.

Nancy Dadami is an Intentional Flow Strategist, Energy Reader, and Cheerleader for Your Soul. She teaches smart, spirited Baby Boomers and Gen X’ers to understand “the flow”, follow their Soul's messages, and find peace of mind in their life & business.

Change The World For The Better By Doing This One Thing

by @elioverbey

I could feel the warmth of the sun on my face and the wind tossing my hair as I let the road lead me. I was relaxed and happy as thoughts of seeing my friend danced through my mind.  I love driving my convertible with the top down feeling the gentleness of nature surround me like a cocoon.

 Oh, here is her street, I stopped to make a left turn. Even though my turn indicator was blinking the boy driving behind me did not see that I was stopped.

Wham! I was hit from behind with great force. My car was thrust forward about 25 feet, my glasses flew off my face and landed in the backseat.  I was stunned, shaken, confused, and disoriented.

A kind man walking on the sidewalk across the street heard the loud crash and immediately ran through oncoming traffic to my car reassuring me that I would be alright. His voice was calm and soothing. I launched into a panic.

He stayed with me, gently talking to me, helping me to calm down. Not only his kind words but his presence was comforting to me.  He appeared out of nowhere at just the right time to be of assistance.

When the police arrived, just like that he was gone. His act of kindness meant more to me than he may ever know.  Although I was not able to thank him I can pay it forward by doing a kind deed for someone else.

Think back to a time when you did a good deed for someone. Did you plan it or was a spontaneous act of kindness?

Kindness is truly a win-win-win situation. The person who receives the good deed benefits from your help, you feel good for having helped someone and the world is a better place because of your kindness.

Never underestimate the impact of a single good deed or act of kindness.

 Oh, yes and did I say kindness is contagious. I feel good when someone does something kind for me, it makes me want to pass the kindness on . I see the happiness and sparkle in other’s eyes when I do a good deed for them.

When H.H. Grandmaster Professor Lin Yun Rinpoche, my Feng Shui Master, was asked what we could do to improve our good luck and create more peace in our world he told us to do one good deed a day for 27 days.

Your good deed or act of kindness ripples out into the world as a positive energy force uplifting all of us.  Imagine the impact you could make by doing a good deed or act of kindness for someone every day for 27 days. Not only would you uplift and shift your energy field you would uplift the energy field of those around you.

The 27 Day Challenge

Are you ready to take on a challenge? I challenge you to do at least one good deed a day for 27 days. The good deeds can be for people you know or for strangers.

Even the smallest act of kindness makes a difference. It’s a win-win-win for all of us. You make someone else happy, increase your own good luck and help to create peace in our world. I know this has the power to shift your circumstances.

 A few 3 Secrets Feng Shui Face book Fans are posting their good deeds on that page. Join us and share your acts of kindness here too https://www.facebook.com/3secretsfengshui/

Some ideas

  • Hold the door open for someone
  • Take a neighbor a flower
  • Surprise someone by taking them lunch
  • Wash a friend’s car
  • Help someone put groceries in their car
  • Give a compliment
  • Buy a cup of coffee for the person behind you in line at the coffee shop
  • Stay after work to help a colleague
  • Write a nice note to someone and leave it on their car or mail it to them
  • Wish someone a good day
  • Smile at everyone
  • Tell someone how much you appreciate them
  • Let someone in your lane in a traffic jam.

Those are just a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing. I know you will create your own opportunities.  Other 27 Day Challengers are noticing that they are looking forward to the next good deed that they can do for someone. See your posts on facebook.com/3secretsfeng shui

NANCY DADAMI is transforming the way spirited women function in their workspaces. I teach smart busy business owners to create workspaces that make their heart sing, empower their work and shorten their path to success.

As a Feng Shui Consultant, Energy Reader, and Intentional Flow Mentor I help you understand “the flow” and find Peace of Mind in your life and business.

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The First Step To A Better World Begins With You

by @elioverbey

Do you know the benefits of being kind to yourself? Your overall well-being can be improved when you are kind to yourself or others. When was the last time you focused on treating yourself with kindness and self-compassion?

Personal Benefits of Kindness

The benefits of kindness are more than feeling good. Kindness affects the well-being of your body and your mind. Here are some of the benefits of being and showing kindness to yourself and others.

  • Kindness slows down the aging process. People who volunteer tend to have fewer aches and pains.
  • Kindness improves your relationships and connections with others. You are uplifted when you perform acts of kindness for yourself or others.
  • Kindness increases happiness. In a study by The Journal of Social Psychology, those who practiced an acto fo kindness each day had a higher level of happiness than those who did not.
  • Kindness boosts your self-love and self-respect. It makes you happier and in an elevated mood more often.
  • Kindness helps prevent illnesses caused by inflammation. Volunteering seems to lower the levels of inflammation in your body. Oxytocin is released, even from small acts of kindness to yourself or others.
  • Kindness is good for your heart. It makes you feel good to be kind and it affects the chemical balance of your heart, releasing oxytocin which reduces blood pressure. Another great reason to be kind to yourself and others.
  • Kindness helps reduce stress. Helping others lets you focus on another, letting your worries and problems go.

What To Do Next

Kindness helps you stay healthy, happy and feel good about yourself. By practicing self-compassion without expectations you are spreading happiness that has the power to ripple out into the world.

Start With A Loving-Kindness Meditation

You can practice this meditation before you start your day, as you are going to bed at night or anytime during the day that feels right. Remember to begin with yourself so you will be filled up, making it easier to give to others.

Let me know how your Loving Kindness practice is going.

If you found this article helpful share it with others. Thank you.

You may also want to read this article How To Create the World You Want To Live In By Being Kind

NANCY DADAMI – is transforming the way spirited women function in their surroundings. I teach smart busy business owners to create workspaces that make their hearts sing, empower their work and shorten their path to success. As a Feng Shui Consultant, Energy Reader and Soul Flow Artist, I help you understand “the flow” and Find Peace of Mind in your life and business. See her personal website here https://nancydadami.com.

How You Can Create the World You Want to Live in By Being Kind

by @elioverbey

In a time of political unrest and disagreement, kindness and compassion are more important than ever. People around the world seem to be more divided in their beliefs, which is leading folks to become more polarized, isolated and disconnected.

A positive, hopeful mindset is more difficult to achieve. More kindness and compassion among people could truly go far in making a difference and allowing people to unite more fully.

“We cannot do great things on this earth, only small things with great love.”

Mother Teresa

What Is Kindness?

Kindness involves being friendly, generous, and considerate to someone else. This is particularly true when the recipient is going through a difficult time, struggling, or in distress.

Kindness is an activity, action, or deed. It’s something you perform toward or on behalf of someone else.

Kindness is the ways both big and small, that we express compassion, concern, consideration, and care for ourselves and others. Kindness transcends race, religion, social class, and language barriers.

Being kind has a big impact on the world around you and on yourself in ways that you may not realize. It is contagious. Perform an act of kindness for someone and it ripples out into the world by the person who received your kindness or by others that observed your act of kindness.

Kindness has the power to increase your happiness and well-being.

What Is Compassion?

Compassion is the feeling part of kindness. You can be kind without having compassion. A compassionate person understands the suffering of another, and they want to ease that discomfort.

Compassion causes you to empathize with another person and to feel what they might be going through.

Kindness is shown by action, while compassion is about understanding or empathizing with the other’s feelings. With compassion comes a desire to show mercy or kindness upon another.

Compassion often shows up as acts of kindness like listening, being present, offering help, and empathy.

Watch This Video To See Kindness In Action

Kindness and Compassion Are Contagious

Acts of kindness and compassion ripple and grow, affecting everyone.  When people witness or are recipients of kindness or compassion, they often are motivated to pass on the goodwill.

One act of kindness can change thousands of lives In the words of Maya Angelou.

“People will forget what you did, they will forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.”

How Kindness and Compassion Can Change the World

It may be more important now than ever before to work to re-introduce these principles into your life and the world.

I believe we can do that by modeling them to those around us. You and I can contribute to the spread of kindness and compassion.

Even the smallest acts of kindness can make a big difference in someone’s life and in the world at large, particularly during a time of such political polarization.

There’s a great deal of conflict in the world. We can never know another’s story. A simple nod or smile might make someone’s day and lead them to feel less alone.

These are the kinds of things that can bridge gaps and bring people together

Nancy Dadami is a Flow Alignment Specialist, Energy Reader, and Soul Flow Artist teaching you how to get Better Flow Faster and unlock your potential so you can live a life you love.

I Can’t Hide Who I Am Becoming, And Neither Can You

by @elioverbey

I am growing and expanding my awareness of how the world works. Insights and synchronicity happen to me all the time.

Here is the embarrassing part, Up until now I have been afraid to share my expansion with you.

By sharing only Feng Shui I am limiting myself, my growth and insights on life.

My new insights and growth come from two new areas of study. I am in my 5th year of a clairvoyant training program where I learn about managing the energy within and around me and also in spaces. 2 1/2 years ago I embraced intentional, intuitive art which allows my creativity to flow, and lets me communicate with my Soul.

Through art and clairvoyance, I get insights that I use every day personally and professionally in Feng Shui, Soul Talk, Energy Reading, and Soul Flow Art.

My intention is to incorporate ways to boost our personal growth with you so each of us can reach our fullest potential. No more hiding for me.

Personal Growth is the way to success for anything you want.

NANCY DADAMI is transforming the way spirited women function in their homes and workspaces. She teaches smart business owners to create workspaces that make their heart sing, empower their work and shorten their path to success.