This video has Feng Shui and Flow tips for you about your home and workplace. Feng Shui helps you get “Better Flow Faster” in your surroundings and in your life.
You will hear me say “There is a remedy for everything” because everything has an energy and flow component which can be shifted.
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I woke up one morning and I knew I had to do something differently.
I was tired of being alone.
I didn’t know what to do.
And I knew I had to make a change. I believe if you want something different you must do something different.
It had been long enough since I used the excruciating pain of the divorce as a fortress protecting me from being vulnerable and trusting another.
The cost of feeling safe was too high – The price was loneliness.
Sometimes you must wait to be ready. You can’t hurry into a change. I know what you are thinking. Nancy, sometimes I get thrown into a change that I don’t feel ready for. Yes, that does happen, and the change unfolds at its’ own pace, whether it is a choice or a circumstance.
It is all about getting in the flow and setting your manifesting course. Creating what you want is simple when you get into and maintain Flow.
This process connects and aligns your body, mind and spirit with your intention. My body, mind and spirit were operating like a run-away train, moving toward more loneliness and stress. More about this alignment process later.
Step #1 – Dream until you know what you want. Grab your journal, put on some soothing music, meditate, and begin writing. Let what you want flow onto the paper. I am talking details here.
I wrote a 3-page list of all the qualities I wanted in a partner. From good sense of humor, respectful, compassionate, honest communicator, to someone who was into personal development and growth. I kept adding to this list for more than a week. Oh, yes, I want to include this too a healthy person, from a loving family, a career that he loves, and a positive lifestyle.
You can do this too. Start dreaming about what you want, just start writing about it in as much detail as you can imagine
You are free -flowing your ideas. No filter on what comes up. Write them down. When you see what you want written down you begin to paint the picture of your desire.
You are the artist of your life – what do you want to paint on your life’s canvas?
Step #2 – Refine your list. Eliminate some items and clarify others. You might discover something new you want to add to the list and picture you are creating.
Write your list in a positive way, incorporating what you want not what you don’t want. An example I am happy with my new partner, not I don’t want a relationship that makes me feel upset.
I took that original 3-page list and combined some ideas while eliminating others. I focused on what my “must haves” in a partner.
Step #3 – Putting it all together – the body, mind and spirit
The goal here is to connect and align the body with the mind and with the spirit.
The Mind is about your mindset. Think about what you want. You must believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are manifesting what you want no matter what is happening around you.
Hold the belief that it is on its way and stay focused. When you get off track by life, bring yourself back to your vision of what you want. If you slide off track again, tell yourself to get back to your vision. Keep doing that every time you get sidetracked from what you want.
You are creating a new way of thinking by believing in your dream. It takes practice. The more you do it the easier it gets.
I knew my ideal partner was on his way to me. When I wavered, I pulled myself back to my belief and focused on the joy that was coming to me.
The Spirit is about your feelings. Your feelings come from a deep place within that is connected to your inner guidance and Soul.
When you are quiet enough to connect to those feelings, believing it is simple.
Imagine the feelings you will have when you manifest your dream. Is it joy, happiness, generosity, peace, love, excitement, passion and beyond?
Let yourself bask in those feelings, allowing the feelings to permeate every cell in your body.
Positive feelings enhance flow and help connect your body and your mind with your spirit.
What do you do if your feelings go negative? Feel them, let them pass through and move back to your vision.
I spent time everyday basking in the feelings of my ideal partnership. This is a critical step.
The Body is about movement. When you move you keep the energy/chi moving, creating positive inner flow through your system.
Your inner flow relies on your activities. You can do slow movements like yoga, tai chi, chi gong, stretching, walking and gardening. Faster movements like running, dancing, kick boxing, and riding a bike keep your energy flowing too.
Your body movement connects the mind and spirit creating the manifesting trifecta.
There is a dance going on between the mind, spirit and body all the time. When harmony is created manifesting happens.
My Results – within 3 months I met my current husband. He had all the qualities on my list. At one point I showed it to him. His comment “This is me, you put in an order for me”.
That is exactly what happened.
It worked for me, I know it can work for you.
Ever wonder if there is Destiny or is it all about our Choices?
Have you ever asked yourself “Who Am I?
Why Am I Here? or
What Is The Meaning of Life?
In working with clients I notice 3 age groups that people ask these questions.
“Who Am I, how am I different from my parents?This is a big one, they want to find their own identity. A place they can plant their flag in the sand and claim who they are.
What am I supposed to do with my life?
What is the meaning of life anyway”?
My whole life is ahead of me and I can choose what I want to do with it. If I only knew what to do.
When I was teaching I noticed that high school students had a zest for life, a searching for who they are and how they fit in with friends, family and the future.
“Who Am I — I am not sure I like who I am becoming. My career is not fulfilling me.
Is this all there is?
What can I do that will make a contribution? How can I get more meaning into my life”?
It can be a time of spiritual awakening, looking to answer the question “why am I here”.
It is more than finding a life purpose. It is a deeper calling from within that will no longer be silent.
The search is on. There has to be a way to make a living, make a difference and feel fulfilled.
“Who am I now that I do not have my career?
When people retire they have spent a lot of time at their career. It has become part of their identity.
I remember the first time I went to a social gathering after I retired as a high school principal and people asked me what I did for a living(the normal question). I proudly announced that I was retired. It was like I had no value. They nodded and walked away. The conversation ended.
What is my value without my job? A question every retiree must answer.
I don’t want to sit in a rocking chair and waste away.
What is the meaning of my life now?
I don’t know how much time I have so I have to make it count.
Some give up and sit in that rocking chair. Others reinvent themselves and continue to live a vibrant meaningful life, making a contribution and a difference in the lives of others.
Perhaps you know people struggling to find answers to the basic life questions. Hopefully this gives you insight in to the journey we all take at some point in life.
Your gender, ethnicity, eye color, family, birth place are all pre-determined.
You choose your friends, education level, school and life activities, where you live, your career, how you spend your money, your relationships, marriage or not, and how to spend your time.
We always have a choice about how we respond to our circumstances. We can see the gifts a challenge brings and the potential for personal growth or we can feel victimized and get stuck in a negative cycle.
You have a Destiny Code that reveals your talents, personality traits, areas of challenge, life themes and areas for growth in this life that can help you unlock your personal Destiny Blueprint. This Destiny Code is pre-determined by your birth information. The time, day, month and year you were born.
Your Destiny Code holds the clues and secrets to the questions we ask throughout our life. Who am I?, Why am I here? and What is the meaning of life?