Feng Shui Invisible Forces: How They Affect You

by @elioverbey

There are 2 energy forces at work in your home and workplace. The visible forces and the invisible forces. Visible forces are the physical features of the space that you can see. The invisible forces are the energetic forces such as flow through the space, lingering feelings or behaviors of previous occupants and invisible occupants such ghosts and spirits. Every person that has ever occupied your current space has left an energy deposit of their experiences, thoughts, and behaviors there.

Who occupied your home or workplace before you? Were they prosperous, happy, and successful or did they go bankrupt, get divorced or have health problems? Why did they move out? Do you know anything about the people that occupied your space before you? If you are the first occupant in a space, the questions you ask are about the land and what happened there before your building was constructed. The answers to these questions tell you if there are positive or negative energies lingering in your space. [Read more…]

Letting Go or Holding On, Where Are You?

by @elioverbey

Do you struggle with “letting go” or your stuff, old habits, or relationships? A you finding yourself in situations where you  must  “hold on” or “let go”. These kind of decisions are stressful when you struggle with clarity. You are not alone. I have been challenged with letting go in several areas of my life. My first reaction was to hold on for dear life. When that did not work I entertained the possibility of letting go.  It has created chaos, overwhelm, and freedom. Once I embraced letting go and released my need to control situations a sense of freedom began to come into my life.
 
One of the themes this year is “Letting Go”. How is it showing up in your life? Sometimes as a profound loss, like death of a dear one. Sometimes as resistance to letting go of a habit. 
 
I found the following poem helpful. I hope you find peace within it’s wisdom too.
Letting Go
 
To “let go” does not mean to stop caring; it means I can’t do for someone else.
 To “let go” is not to cut myself off; it’s a realization I can’t control another.
To “let go” is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another; it’s to make the most of myself.
To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.
To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To “let go” is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To “let go” is not to be protective; it’s to permit another to face reality.
To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.
To “let go” is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.
To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To “let go” is to fear less and to love more.
                       
~ Author Unknown
So there you have it….Have a great season of “Letting Go”.

 

Let Your Inner Magnificence Show the Way,

I Could Not Control Myself

by @elioverbey

I charged into the kitchen, scanning the counter for anything chocolate. The craving was deep in my bell, lik a bull horn screaming to me “Chocolate, chocolate and NOW!” Has that ever happened to you? What is really going on and what does it mean to you? [Read more…]

A Feng Shui Secret I Learned From A 5 Year Old

by @elioverbey

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Have you ever tried to explain what you do to a child? I had that experience last week. I went to do an energy space clearing at Zachary’s house. He asked me “What are you going to do”? It surprised me because I usually explain my process to adults and my explanation uses science and words  I knew a 5 year old would not understand. So I asked him “Have you ever seen the movie Star Wars”? he said “Yes” and started waving his arms around like he was wielding a light saber. “Then you know about the Force. There is the force the good force that makes us feel good and then there is the bad force that makes us feel bad. What I am going to do is increase the good force and have the bad force leave.” .“How are you going to do that”? he said. “Well there are three parts I told him: [Read more…]

Do Things Happen In Your Home That You Can’t Explain?

by @elioverbey

She had just gone to bed, turned out the light and it started again.  Her bed was moving sideways, it was not an earthquake. She lay in the dark trembling. Who would believe that her bed had moved with no one in the room? They would think she was crazy.She was going to have to tell someone because it kept happening and she couldn’t take it anymore.

His 3 year old daughter said “Daddy tell the boy to go away, he always comes when I am playing”. The dad looked around and could not see anyone.  This was not the first time his daughter had told him about the boy. He began to wonder what was going on in his house. [Read more…]